DIGITAL LIBRARY

TARGETED SUPPORT…. ON YOUR TERMS

Whether you need a specific protocol, a single template, or a quick strategy session, every tool below is available à la carte and designed for you to implement immediately to support your next step forward.

Protocols

COMMUNICATION PROTOCOL

A step‑by‑step workflow that helps you decode manipulative communication, evaluate whether a response is warranted, and craft calm, strategic replies — reducing conflict while protecting your legal and emotional ground.

Benefits:

• Neutralizes coercive tactics before they escalate

• Keeps you consistent with court orders and boundaries

• Reduces reactive responses and emotional exhaustion

DOCUMENTATION PROTOCOL

A detailed framework for what to record, when to record it, and how to preserve it in ways that are trauma‑aware, legally defensible, and psychologically protective.

Benefits:

• Prevents overwhelm by focusing on high‑value evidence

• Preserves emotional energy by narrowing documentation criteria

• Organizes facts in ways professionals can trust

EVIDENCE PROTOCOL

A comprehensive system for organizing your documentation — from digital files and timestamps to searchable patterns — so your records are secure, accessible, and ready for legal or clinical use.

Benefits:

• Preserves metadata and context for legal credibility

• Makes month‑to‑month or year‑to‑year tracking easy

• Prevents loss of information and protects confidentiality

Templates

CHILD IMPACT RECORD

A customizable template to capture changes in your child’s behavior, emotional state, or physical wellbeing linked to co‑parenting stressors. Designed for clarity, neutrality, and clinical or legal relevance.

Benefits:

• Tracks short‑ and long‑term impacts on the child

• Creates a trauma‑informed timeline of reactions and triggers

• Supports therapists, evaluators, or legal advocates with clear data

COMMUNICATION RECORD

A detailed template to analyze written co‑parenting exchanges over time, identifying manipulative tactics, agreement violations, coercive control patterns, and escalation cycles.

Benefits:

• Highlights recurring harmful behavior, not just isolated messages

• Detects covert manipulation using AI‑assisted pattern recognition

• Generates defensible documentation suitable for court review

PROFESSIONAL CONTACT RECORD

A tool for recording interactions with teachers, therapists, school staff, GALs, custody evaluators, and other professionals — including supportive, neutral, or concerning behavior.

Benefits:

• Tracks alignment or bias in professional interactions

• Captures proxy manipulation or “flying monkey” dynamics

• Provides context professionals often overlook

PARENT INTERACTION RECORD

A template designed to document subtle or overt in‑person behaviors at exchanges, events, or drop‑offs — including proximity control, silence as intimidation, surveillance, or triangulation in real time.

Benefits:

• Captures nonverbal and situational control tactics

• Preserves objective details that written logs miss

• Strengthens pattern tracking with context and location

PATTERN REPORT

A higher‑level synthesis tool that compiles individual incidents into a coherent timeline showing escalation, sabotage, or long‑term patterns of harm.

Benefits:

• Summarizes recurring behavior with narrative clarity

• Provides professionals with a cohesive timeline

• Helps judges, therapists, and evaluators see the full picture

PARENTING CHRONOLOGY

A sortable, category‑based timeline spreadsheet that tracks all relevant incidents — from emotional harm and financial control to boundary breaches and schedule disruptions — with tagging for court or therapeutic use.

Benefits:

• Organizes disparate events into one searchable record

• Tags entries for easy filtering by category or priority

• Creates longitudinal data most parents never have time to compile